Jodoh...

Ada 2 sebab knp jodoh tak ada:
1. Ur jodoh dah mati.. accident ke, sakit ke, etc
2. U tak cari jodoh tu..

And...

There's 3 types of people u will meet:
1. The one whom loves u alot, but u dont love him/her..
2. The one whom u loves alot, but he/she did not love u..
3. The one that neither both of u in love with.. but u r both there, together.. at the same place, at the same time, at a perfect situation..

wud like to add another one..

4. The one whom... u loves dearly.. n loves u too.. but time and situation, neva seems to be perfect.. to permit u both to be together..


The question is... Wuts Love?

Worth Sharing

A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play game. The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people he/she hates.

So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up to 5 potatoes. The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.

Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.

The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustration s and started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.

The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your lifetime?"


Throw away any hatred for anyone from your heart so that you will not carry sins for a lifetime and to the end of 'sansara'. Forgiving others is the best attitude to take! Love others even if you don't like them........ and if you want to see a better world.

Wut shud u do if u r (or about to be) in a relationship with a married man...

Recently... i found out that... a friend of mine is digging a hole by involving with a married man... it may be unintentional.. it may be no harm... it may be "just friend".. but.. prevention is better than cure, rite... n dont get me wrong.. its not a sin to be a friend with a married person... but.. u have to know ur limits.. n why just one? why do u have to go for lunch n dinner with the same person? again... why just one?

Being a person that merely involve in this kind of "friendship"... Heres my view...


Its true that a married man words is sweeter than sweet... perhaps because... they knew just about how to handle a womans heart... But... Its not right to mess with someone elses man... just imagine wut it feels like to hav a husband whom being a sweet of sweet to another woman..

Out of blindness... u know.. love is blind, rite.. U may say that the feelings is pure.. that.. he is the man for u... he is the right person... ur so-call-soulmate... for the fact that is, u cant control who u fall in love with... maybe its just ur fate to be in love with a married man... but still.. its not an excuse... taking someone's husband... someone's father.. u r as bad as a thief...

U'll say... "I love him".. "n he loves me"... "i dunno that he's married"... all n all.. it still doesnt change the fact that he's married.. do urself a favour.. leave him... dont drag urself in this so-call-friendship... be true to urself...

It may be hard at first... u might suffer with a broken heart... but.. for the sake of his wife... his children.. for the sake of ur own self worth.. stop the "friendship"... its better now... then later...

Wut goes around comes around, rite?