Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Wut shud u do if u r (or about to be) in a relationship with a married man...
Recently... i found out that... a friend of mine is digging a hole by involving with a married man... it may be unintentional.. it may be no harm... it may be "just friend".. but.. prevention is better than cure, rite... n dont get me wrong.. its not a sin to be a friend with a married person... but.. u have to know ur limits.. n why just one? why do u have to go for lunch n dinner with the same person? again... why just one?
Being a person that merely involve in this kind of "friendship"... Heres my view...
Its true that a married man words is sweeter than sweet... perhaps because... they knew just about how to handle a womans heart... But... Its not right to mess with someone elses man... just imagine wut it feels like to hav a husband whom being a sweet of sweet to another woman..
Out of blindness... u know.. love is blind, rite.. U may say that the feelings is pure.. that.. he is the man for u... he is the right person... ur so-call-soulmate... for the fact that is, u cant control who u fall in love with... maybe its just ur fate to be in love with a married man... but still.. its not an excuse... taking someone's husband... someone's father.. u r as bad as a thief...
U'll say... "I love him".. "n he loves me"... "i dunno that he's married"... all n all.. it still doesnt change the fact that he's married.. do urself a favour.. leave him... dont drag urself in this so-call-friendship... be true to urself...
It may be hard at first... u might suffer with a broken heart... but.. for the sake of his wife... his children.. for the sake of ur own self worth.. stop the "friendship"... its better now... then later...
Wut goes around comes around, rite?